tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-509876753854271521.post6174895295311831605..comments2016-01-16T20:54:10.170-07:00Comments on An Eternal Butterfly: Different PagesBee Beehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/10136539848626570105noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-509876753854271521.post-54151919062465922322010-01-29T20:14:53.915-07:002010-01-29T20:14:53.915-07:00Wanting different things or at different rates tha...Wanting different things or at different rates than your husband has got to be one of the very hardest things about this process. I doubt this is any help but - cynicism is what has helped get me through. If there were something I wanted to try, I could freak out if he wouldn't even discuss it for six months - WHAT IF THIS WAS THE MONTH I WAS REALLY FERTILE?! I've cried so many tears over things like that. My thinking now is, "Come on, how many 'six months' have I had? Never got pregnant once. If he doesn't want to rub yak fat on his genitals until 2011, it will keep." Or, you get the idea. I recognize I'm headed to never-neverland (hey, I just realized I could use that!!) at a steady pace, so that may change things; and when there are real life deadlines and obstacles, that changes things too. All I can really say is, best of luck. Being in different places, on any subject, is really hard, I know, and I will be praying for you to be marching in lock-step again soon!the misfithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05206278843624907697noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-509876753854271521.post-91990992779574119122010-01-20T17:59:15.899-07:002010-01-20T17:59:15.899-07:00No, No, No....Don't let go of your dreams!!! ...No, No, No....Don't let go of your dreams!!! I know at times it may seem like it's impossible but I promise doors will be opened if you are faithful. It may seem like you and your husband are pages apart... Oh how I know too well those moments!!! :0) But I promise, the moment will pass. Better days will come. You will find your way. I just know it. Please don't ever loose hope. Remember..."Knock and ye shall receive..." Just know that I am praying for you right now with all of my heart. This is no fun journey but you will make it- I just know it.Christine Dallimorehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05559553254503028075noreply@blogger.com